Tuesday, February 20, 2024

AWARENESS TOUR: Guess How Marion Feels by Miss Kaye, Illustrated by Miss Waitthk - GUEST POST + GIVEAWAY!



Getting in touch with our feelings is something that starts in childhood.  With a boost in the right direction, it can help little ones grow into well balanced little bundles of joy that know how to acknowledge what they are feelings, grow from it, and share that all around goodness with those that surround.  The book featured on today's AWARENESS TOUR with The Children's Book Review aims to do just that and more with little Marion guiding readers through a story all about feelings.  KEEP READING for a quick glimpse at the tale, and then continue reading for a special GUEST POST with the author about Emotional Intelligence...




by
Miss Kaye
Illustrated by
Miss Waitthk
Ages 3+ | 34 Pages
9781738593026
Maya Nurtures (2024)


About the book...
Marion is a kind, creative, and easy kid… but he’s faced with BIG emotions. Help Marion identify those BIG feelings in this interactive children’s picture book.

Guess How Marion Feels is a transformative experience that lays the foundation for emotional intelligence and meaningful connections. A gentle Social Emotional Learning (SEL) tool to guide parents, caregivers, and teachers to teach kids who struggle to pick up social cues and have challenges in social situations.

This book is made to celebrate and honor the feelings of our little ones, foster open communication, and create inclusive learning with our neurodivergent kids. Written by a neurodivergent author, Miss Kaye aims to support kids and everyone struggling with social interactions.







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*** GUEST POST ***

How to Teach Toddlers Emotional Intelligence


Our feelings, emotions, and affection are what make us feel connected to ourselves and our surroundings. It is the foundation of every relationship we form in our lives—the fundamental element in building stronger and lasting human connections.

Yet, it is the most tricky thing to teach. We are complex creatures with differences in culture, beliefs, parenting, gender identity, environment, neuro differences, personal biases, and many, many more. These could almost guarantee that each of us is one-of-a-kind on this planet. 

Despite our uniqueness, we have common needs to meet. One of these needs is the sense of having healthy emotional connections. Brené Brown famously quoted Maya Angelou with these words, "You are only free when you realize you belong no place - you belong every place - no place at all. The price is high. The reward is great." Basically, the core of belonging is being yourself. It takes experience, challenges, achievement… even a lifetime to achieve this. In essence, the philosophy of knowing oneself is through self-awareness and consciousness.

In the realm of child development, one of the crucial aspects to consider is emotional self-regulation. This is the ability of the child to control their own emotions, handle frustrations, and resist impulsive behavior. As parents, caregivers, teachers, and concerned adults, it is our responsibility to guide little ones on this journey of self-regulation.  


Understanding Self-Regulation

Self-regulation, in its essence, refers to a child's capacity to manage their emotions and behavior in accordance with the demands of the situation. It encompasses the ability to resist highly emotional reactions to upsetting stimuli, calm oneself down when upset, adjust to changes in expectations, and handle frustration without outbursts. These skills mature as children grow, allowing them to direct their behavior toward goals despite the unpredictability of the world and their own feelings.


Identifying Emotional Dysregulation

Emotional dysregulation can manifest differently in each child. Some may display instantaneous, intense reactions without warning, while others may have a slower build-up, leading to a behavioral outburst. The common thread is the struggle to manage strong emotions effectively. It's essential to recognize these signs and address them proactively.


Factors Contributing to Self-Regulation Challenges

Several factors can contribute to a child's difficulties with self-regulation. These include inherent temperament and personality traits, which may make self-soothing more challenging for some children.

Additionally, the environment plays a significant role; when parents consistently step in to soothe or solve problems, children may struggle to develop self-discipline. Conditions such as autism or anxiety can further compound these challenges, making it crucial to provide tailored support.


Teaching Self-Regulation Skills

Teaching self-regulation skills is not about avoiding difficult situations but rather coaching children through them and providing a supportive framework. This process, often referred to as "scaffolding," involves breaking challenging activities into manageable parts.

For instance, if a child struggles with a particular task, such as brushing their teeth, start with a simplified step, like applying toothpaste to the brush. Praise their efforts and gradually add more steps as they gain confidence.


The Power of Practice Runs

Another effective method to scaffold self-regulation is through practice runs. If a child tends to react impulsively or have tantrums in specific situations, create low-stakes scenarios for them to practice better responses. For instance, if shopping trips are a trigger, make short visits where they can practice walking calmly and keeping their hands to themselves. Reward their successes to reinforce positive behavior.


Encouraging Self-Reflection

To foster self-regulation, it's essential to encourage self-reflection in children. When they make mistakes or exhibit impulsive behavior, approach the situation calmly and provide non-judgmental feedback. Discuss what went wrong, why it happened, and how they can handle it differently next time. Creating an environment that promotes thoughtful, reflective, and self-aware behavior is key to long-term success.


Additional Tools for Self-Regulation

In addition to the techniques mentioned above, mindfulness and meditation can be beneficial for children, particularly those with self-regulation challenges. These practices help children focus on the present moment and develop greater emotional awareness. Parent training programs offer valuable resources for caregivers looking to enhance their coaching skills. For older children, dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) can provide essential tools for distress tolerance and emotion regulation.


The Family Environment's Role

Ultimately, the family environment plays a central role in fostering self-regulation. Consistency, patience, and ongoing support are fundamental. Remember that every child is unique, and progress may not always be linear. By modeling self-reflection and self-regulation, parents and caregivers create an environment where children can thrive and develop these crucial skills.


In conclusion, helping children improve their self-regulation skills is a vital aspect of their development. By understanding the nuances of self-regulation, identifying dysregulation, addressing contributing factors, and employing effective teaching methods, we can guide our children toward emotional maturity and self-control. 

Remember, the journey may be challenging, but the rewards of seeing a child grow into a self-regulated individual are immeasurable.

Notes: 

  • This article is intended as a comprehensive guide to fostering emotional self-regulation in children and should not replace professional advice or intervention when necessary.

  • References used are resources from the National Library of Medicine on the topic of Parenting in the Context of the Child: Genetic and Social Processes, Colombia University Irving Medical Centre, Medication from materials of Deepak Chopra, and other psychology books.






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ABOUT THE AUTHOR


Miss Kaye was born in the Philippines. She had challenges as an adult neurodivergent. This serves as her inspiration for writing fun, engaging, and educational stories to teach life skills and mindfulness to kids.



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ABOUT THE ILLUSTRATOR


Miss Waitthk is from Hongkong. She enjoys making people feel happy and joyful through her drawings. As a kid, she remembered drawing anime characters and coloring them with colored pencils. Since then, she kept on drawing.




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***   GIVEAWAY   ***



Enter the giveaway for the chance to win a 1-hour FREE coaching session to launch your own picture book, along with signed copies of Guess How Marion Feels (one to keep and one to share with a neurodivergent charity of your choice under your name).





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Special thanks to Bianca at The Children's Book Review for the chance to bring this tour to you and to the author for sharing a bit of themselves with the guest post. (THANKS!) This post is sponsored by Maya Nurtures. The review and opinions expressed in this post are based on my personal view. For more information on this title, the author, the publisher, this tour, or those on the horizon, feel free to click through the links provided above. Be sure to check out the rest of the stops on the tour for more bookish fun!


TOUR SCHEDULE

Friday, February 9, 2024
Book Tour Kick-Off

Monday, February 12, 2024
Author Interview with Miss Kaye

Tuesday, Ferbuary 13, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Wednesday, February 14, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Thursday, February 15, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Friday, February 16, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels and Little Free Library Drop

Monday, February 19, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Tuesday, February 20, 2024
An article by Miss Kaye

Wednesday, February 21, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Thursday, February 22, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Friday, February 23, 2024
Author Interview with Miss Kaye

Monday, February 26, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Tuesday, February 27, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Wednesday, February 28, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Thursday, February 29, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Friday, March 1, 2024
Author Interview with Miss Kaye

Monday, March 4, 2024
Book Review of Guess How Marion Feels

Tuesday, March 5, 2024
A Storytime Activity Paired with Guess How Marion Feels



Until next time, remember...if it looks good, READ IT!





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